Over the
footbridge.—In our relations with people who are bashful about
their feelings, we must be capable of dissimulation; they feel a sudden
hatred against anyone who catches them in a tender, enthusiastic, or
elevated feeling, as if he had seen their secrets. If you want to make
them feel good at such moments, you have to make them laugh or voice some
cold but witty sarcasm; then their feeling freezes and they regain power
over themselves. But I am giving you the moral before telling the story.
      There was a time in our lives when we
were so close that nothing seemed to obstruct our friendship and
brotherhood, and only a small footbridge separated us. Just as you were
about to step on it, I asked you: "Do you want to cross the footbridge to
me?"—Immediately, you did not want to any more; and when I asked you
again, you remained silent. Since then mountains and torrential rivers and
whatever separates and alienates have been cast between us, and even if we
wanted to get together, we couldn't. But when you now think of that little
footbridge, words fail you and you sob and marvel.
—Friederich Nietzsche, The Gay Science, Book One, 16